What was the last thing that hurt me?

2012:
I try my best not to sweat the small stuff, but once in a while, something very small hurts me for days.

I hardly ever sit down to watch TV. Last Friday, at dinner table, kids and I talked about watching TV/movie together. We debated what to watch and finally agreed upon something. I started washing dishes after the dinner. Kids were waiting for me to start the movie. KNOWING that we had planned to watch the movie, ba-dada started their movie on purpose. They have the control on TV pretty much 24/7. One day that I decide to spend some time with kids and watch TV with them, they just had to have to urge to watch Indian movie. I would've been ok with Indian movie.. it was actually one of the movie that i DO like.. it just wasn't done the right way. Even kids do like to watch Indian movies. But every once in a while, we also like to watch something English even on 'family nights'. Even kids picked up on it and Neil came to me to said, "I guess we're not watching movie tonight." They all went upstairs and hung out together in room.

2013:
When JK misplaced his phone and blamed me for hiding it. I've gotten over it, but it still hurts that he seriously believes that I would hide it from him on purpose.

2018:
Speaking of hiding.... few days ago, I found soaked almonds in the oven (Yes, oven!). So, I ate few from there, 2 to be exact. I figured, MIL will figure out that I ate them and maybe, just maybe start soaking few extras to accommodate me.  I mean, we used to soak them before all the time and share with everyone. I don't know when this started again. Next time I remember to look for them in oven, there were none. So, I thought maybe she forgot and only soaked once in a while. I checked again this morning and found them all the way back behind the pots in the oven. I was FUMING!!!! Why on earth would she feel the need to hide them in the first place? And then, she was found out, she finds ANOTHER hiding place? For the first one, I was trying to give her benefit of doubt that maybe she didn't want bugs or anything, but she could've just covered the bowl with a dish. But whatever! Now, I knew for sure that it was really done to hide it from me! I tried to calm down, but 10 minutes later, I woke (it was 4:45am, I was on my way to work) JK up, showed him what was done and he shrugged it off saying she eats them to help with her aching knee. But WHY is she hiding it from there. He dumped it on me saying if I had a problem with it, I should talk to her about it. NO! You're her son, you're my husband. You talk to her about it and act like a husband for once. UGH!!!! So, yeah, I guess I was more furious than hurt, but it does hurt that JK always have some kind of excuse for her vile behavior and dumps the blame on me that I see things when there are none.(5/26/18)